tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post6239464981735674476..comments2024-03-18T12:13:51.922-04:00Comments on Big Blueberry Eyes: Domestic Violence: My StoryMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-19487076719910242892012-10-31T15:45:29.795-04:002012-10-31T15:45:29.795-04:00I was in an abusive relationship as well. I had be...I was in an abusive relationship as well. I had been married for 2 years. I had known him for 3 years and we got married after graduating. He was never violent before or in the early part of our marriage. But around the time our son Henery was 1, he began to become very hostile and controlling. I figured because he had gotten a new job with less authority he needed to have athourity over me. The controlling went on for 6 months before he started to yell. If one thing wasnotperfectly right he would errupt. I began to get a feeling that something was wrong and i should leave but i was stuck. 2 months later he first hit me. I had balanced the checkbook and that was his job. He slapped me across the face infront of our son. The pyshical abuse went on for 5 months but it was sporatic the yelling and controlling were at an all time hight. And then he knocked me out one night. The he hit henery who was just over 2. I woke upon to see Henry knocked out. I called 911. They came arrested my ex, and took Henry and me to the hospital. I filed for divorce and got full custody of Henry. That was 10 years ago. Henry is 12, I am remarried to a marvolous man and we have a great daughter Emma who is 5 and has Down Syndrome.Stephinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-26326663550514142432012-10-30T22:48:41.014-04:002012-10-30T22:48:41.014-04:00Oh, Michelle I hardly know what to say. I'm o...Oh, Michelle I hardly know what to say. I'm obviously thrilled you got out & that you were able to find a good guy. My heart is breaking a little for those boys of his though. And I also have to say thank you - in my very brief stint "with the city" we mostly responded to DV calls and I will confess I could not grasp the dynamics. Did not get it at all. This helps. I hope someone reads this, recognizes themselves, and gets help. xoxokrlrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14392064691347464660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-28002666869302940962012-10-30T22:30:06.337-04:002012-10-30T22:30:06.337-04:00Thank you for sharing your story. Yes, it is easy...Thank you for sharing your story. Yes, it is easy to say how you would react to a certain situation when you aren't in that situation. You never know how you will respond or what you will do until you are in the midst of it. I'm glad things worked out for you!!lovemy3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17434145151589494680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-57079413202602665392012-10-30T16:04:44.761-04:002012-10-30T16:04:44.761-04:00that's "are" raising Jacob. Sheesh!... that's "are" raising Jacob. Sheesh!<br /><br />Thanks for fixing it. :)Mom24https://www.blogger.com/profile/00061152728345287775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-19697206084660059952012-10-30T15:57:41.494-04:002012-10-30T15:57:41.494-04:00The link at the bottom is broken. I would love to...The link at the bottom is broken. I would love to hear your story. I'm glad yours has a happy ending, thank you for being so brave as to share it. This is one of my biggest concerns for my girls, I would hate for them to end up in a relationship where they were abused. I would hope they would know they could always count on us, but I also know it's complicated, people tend to want to hide it. Hopefully we raised our oldest and our raising Jacob to know that violence is never OK.Mom24https://www.blogger.com/profile/00061152728345287775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24014954.post-65172113299057404032012-10-30T15:43:56.773-04:002012-10-30T15:43:56.773-04:00Wow, I didn't realize it was Domestic Violence...Wow, I didn't realize it was Domestic Violence Awareness Month, too. I'm glad you came out the good end of your situation, and hope your ex has learned something. Thank you for sharing that. Btw, your link at the bottom links back to the Domestic Violence Awareness page, not your post...Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14963099760885760598noreply@blogger.com